I wasn't spazzing, I just love to write elaborate replies All the "you"s and "hers" are just for convenience, really...

Damn right this is a good conversation, but that being said, it'll probably die now, lol.

And actually, in ninth grade I developed a strange abhorrence for hugs. I'd react violently whenever someone hugged me, especially from behind. I frequently kicked my ex boyfriend in the shin out of reflex when I first started dating him, and I remember more than once elbowing other in the stomach when I was surprised from behind...not quite as pleasant as they expected it to be, haha. I'm pretty much over it now, but i still get stiff and shrink away from strangers or new friends when they try to hug me...

So to make a long story short, i like kisses better, even though I feel that hugs are more intimate.