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Originally Posted by velvet Percentage wise, I'm not sure.
I think you're terribly wrong, Tiggr. Some of the best relationships of mine have started with sexual encounters first. Sex can make or break a relationship, so it IS a big deal. If the guy wants 2 blowjobs a week and his girl won't stick it in her mouth, how far do you think its going to go? And it's not that the guy has a problem, their sexual personalities just don't mesh. Not alot of sex can be cool with some couples, but I know that there are alot of people in this world, myself included, that just NEEDS sex to be a part of their lives. In my eyes, after a while has passed during the relationship, sex has to happen. It all depends on how fast the couple is moving, of course, but I'm just saying that if a guy I went out with had no interest in having sex, we would probably become very emotionally close, but I know that I need sex, so I'd just end up "cheating" on him. Am I alone in this, or are there others like me? I'm thinking the majority of people are like me, Tigg.
But to you, Solace, I'm not sure percentage wise. For my horny little brain, it's a big number. And for those of you that think you can't have and hold a strong relationship with a person when there is sex involved, you're wrong. It's not like I'll be having so much sex that we couldn't get a word through to each other besides "Harder!" |
And therein lies the point i made..... Yes, a relationship can start out from sex, and even have problems pertaining to sex.. But if there is no 'emotional' attachment, then it is just that... And can never grow beyond that...
Wereas if it does grow beyond that(sex). Then sex becomes the secondary item that the relationship gets based on.. So again i state that if the relationship is based on sex, then it is doomed to fail.....
I would ask you if you are, or have been, in an LTR that is solely based on sex that has emotion and family type thoughts as a secondary base.. Meaning that sex is the priority item in the relatioship.. I should note that the BSDM faction should not be included in the equasion... They are a minority group......