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empathy and insight. - 08-06-04

yes for a person i have a thing called "empathy." i can feel what other people are feeling. when i ask a person if they are ok. i can tell that he or she are not ok as they claim to be ok. which is why i would come out and ask the person twice. and if he or she would stick to there "ok" answer.
these are things i'll do.
1. i'll be a good person and ask if he or she would like to talk about it.
2. if he or she would come out and say "no" and not to talk about it. then i'll leave that be and still let he or she know that whenever they need to talk to me about something. that i'm always here to listen to them whenever they need somebody.
3. i don't force anybody to give me an explenation about the problem that he or she is worried about or having.


which no one should do really. you can't force someone to talk to you about there problem. or even be upset with them about it for not telling you. the best thing to do is this.... you should keep talking to either a he or she and try to cheer them up as best as you can. and let them know that if he or she wants to talk to you about the problem. then they will come to you once when they feel ready enough to come to you about there problem. i think it all has to do with them not trusting you as a person. whenever he or a she is having a problem.

and it isn't all about trusting someone whenever he or she is having a problem. cause most people they feel that they don't have a right to have a problem. because other people have it way worse then them. and they feel that there problem is in a childish form. and so what either a he or she would do is they would bottle it up and try to handle it on there own.

insight

i can understand a problem that a person is having... and being able to see something in the problem which the other person can not see. and its like as if i can psychic about it. and your trying to prevent them to do the right thing in the problem that the person is having. instead of them doing something about the problem in a wrong way. i don't know how i'm always able to see something in the problem which the other person can not see. its just something i have always been able to do.

well i guess this is all i got to say about my empathy and insight. i hope you enjoyed what i had to say about it.
  
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