war is hell
shit gets broke
people get killed
that's why sane societies avoid starting them against bigger and stronger adversaries

if the same rules of engagement that were used in ww2 were used now then we'd see some real civilian casualties, not this piddly shit. the current war goes to excessive lengths to limit collateral damage, to the point of putting our soldiers at increased risk from illegal combatants, but no matter what, partisan groups will bitch