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As this sexual being, he put different quirks. It is a documented fact that men are stimulated by the visual. You see a nicely built woman, and your mind starts thinking sex.
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WOW, That is one HUGE leap in logic there. I think you should not lump every man into the category that our minds start thinking sex. My goodness, if that is your view, you are have already been defiled for your world view is really warped. I can tell you as a matter of fact (and I am speaking for myself only) that I have very good control over my mind and NO, I don't even NEED to think about sex when I see a "nicely built woman".
My loving wife provides me with all the sexual stimulation I need thank you. You are have made a HUGE incorrect assumption.
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A man does not look at pornography because he's going to commit some obscene vile act. (Well, unless you consider masturbation a vile act.)
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Hmmmmm.......well, tell that to the parents of every child that has been molested after some creep has spent the day "looking" at harmless pornography. Tell that to every woman that has been raped after their attacker has been stimulated by "looking" at harmless pornography. Tell that to the families of the victims of Ted Bundy Katashla. Go ahead. Why don't you just call up all these fine people and let them know that their families members were vilotated, raped and murdered by a guy who was not influenced by porn. Go ahead, and then let me know what they say.
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Do you have any idea how much of the population looks at pornography. Just about all of it. Logically, that should mean there are alot more messed up people out there because of it.
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How ridiculous is THAT statement.......just about ALL of the population looks at pornography? What kind of people do you live around? What kind of people are influencing your thought processes? You certainly must be speaking of some sub-culture population.
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Yes, many rapists and serial killers look at pornography. Which actually means diddly squat when you realize that nearly the entire male population views pornography on a regular basis.
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Unbelievable. How can you be so flippant to those who have been victims of pornography. And you are just flat out screwed up in your thinking that "nearly the entire male population views pornography on a regular basis". Again, what kind of creepy sub-culture population do you live in?
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Pornography does not cause twisted views on sex. Most pornography that is viewed is simply pictures of naked women. Not exactly twisted. There is a market out there for beistiality and other such odd fetishes, but that was there before the pornography.
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WAY WRONG. Most pornography is NOT "simply pictures of naked women" unless you think Playboy is the only magazine with picutures being viewed. Again, another totally rediculous statement. Odd fetishes........hmmmmm....you don't think that if the candy wasn't available to people who had NEVER had a taste before, they would never have tried it? I had never even heard of bestiality before until I was a teenager and my knowledge was gained from a friends porn mag. Not through pictures, but a story. And it was disgusting. Until then, I and MOST people have no idea what bestialilty is. It is introduced to them (me) through porn. There was no "market" for this crap in the city where I grew up. You have to go FIND it because it is so out of the normal mainstream thinking. Bestiality is NOT NORMAL.
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Pornography did not cause odd fetishes, the odd fetishes created the pornography.
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You really sound like an authority on this stuff. Again, I disagree. It is not a one way street. Both ocurrences feed off of the other.
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My father is an avid porn collector. (You should see the stuff he has, it's down right scary.) Him and my step mother have had and still have a wonderful relationship. It has never ONCE caused a problem in their marriage. They are happy with each other completely. My father would never think to look at another women for sex, and he respects my step mother like she is a goddess. But yet the man looks at porn quite frequently. So I fail to see how this has wrecked their marriage.
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So, are you going to tell me that you are inside your dad's mind and you know what he is thinking? You have just made one huge contradiction of your own words. Earlier you said if a guy looks at a nicely built woman, "his mind starts thinking sex", and yet here you are going to present your own dad as some pillar of virtue who has a "downright scary" collection of porn, and porn is ALL about sex in your train of thought, yet you want me to believe that he is looking at naked women doing who knows what but somehow, his mind is so pure that he would "never even look at another woman for sex". LOL.......come on now. And he "respects" your stepmother "like she is a goddess"?
That is just so laughable. Do you realize how contradictory you are being? If he respects your stepmom, WHY would he need or even WANT to look at another woman? Why? You call that respect? *shaking my head in unbelief*
And I apologize ahead of time for the following question.
I know nothing of you or your family and if your mother has passed away I am deeply sorry for what I am about to say. Is there any chance that your dad is remarried because pornography affected the relationship between your mother and him? And how do you know? Are you going to speak for you stepmom? I would like to ask her myself what she thinks of your dad's "scary" porn collection and if she in any way feels maybe just a little cheated on? For obviously she is not the main attraction of your dad's eyes. Why does he have such a "scary" collection of pornography and yet has been married at least twice? Can you say addiction?
I am sorry for being not so nice here but your post is just sickening. I thank God that you are not my son's teacher. I am serious Kitashla. Very serious.
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There are marriages that are ruined by pornography, but it is never technically the pornographies fault
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Pornography doesn't break up marriages, people do.
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Again, you have proven yourself to quite capable to contradict yourself which you have done repeatedly in your response.
Tell ya what Kitashla, I pray that you will never become a victim of rape. But God forbid, if it ever does, and you find that the attacker was someone who viewed pornography, (I mean, sheesh, what male in the male population doesn't right?) I hope that you will change your views and realize that pornography does indeed play a huge factor in our society. Not only in the mind of reprobates, but also in relationships.
I hope that as much porn as you and your husband view (by your own admission) does not wind up ripping your marriage apart like it has done so many others.
If you would like some testamonials to back up what I am saying, I would be more than happy to provide them to you.