*stands up*

Hi, my name is Kitashla, and I look at pornography. You should see the collection I have on my computer.

Guess what. My husband has quite a collection on his at well.

Sometimes we look at it by ourselves, more often we look at it together.

It has not contaminated us, it has not hurt us, and it has not defiled us.

Our marriage is just as strong as ever, and it has not caused any problems in our marriage.

Here's a simple fact for your little friend (as so far you seem capable of posting anything that is of your own creation.)

God created man as a sexual being. Now in many cases I think god screwed up. (Come on, a man's sexual peak is at 18 and a woman's sexual peak is at 30? Anyone else see anything incredibly unfair about that? *grin*)

As this sexual being, he put different quirks. It is a documented fact that men are stimulated by the visual. You see a nicely built woman, and your mind starts thinking sex. Nothing wrong with that. That is the way you are made.

A man does not look at pornography because he's going to commit some obscene vile act. (Well, unless you consider masturbation a vile act.)

Do you have any idea how much of the population looks at pornography. Just about all of it. Logically, that should mean there are alot more messed up people out there because of it.

But there aren't, which means that it's not true.

Yes, many rapists and serial killers look at pornography. Which actually means diddly squat when you realize that nearly the entire male population views pornography on a regular basis.

I hate it so much when these types of people start at point A and some how get to point D because it sounds good.

Pornography does not cause twisted views on sex. Most pornography that is viewed is simply pictures of naked women. Not exactly twisted. There is a market out there for beistiality and other such odd fetishes, but that was there before the pornography.

Pornography did not cause odd fetishes, the odd fetishes created the pornography.

My father is an avid porn collector. (You should see the stuff he has, it's down right scary.) Him and my step mother have had and still have a wonderful relationship. It has never ONCE caused a problem in their marriage. They are happy with each other completely. My father would never think to look at another women for sex, and he respects my step mother like she is a goddess. But yet the man looks at porn quite frequently. So I fail to see how this has wrecked their marriage.

There are marriages that are ruined by pornography, but it is never technically the pornographies fault. If I were to take it into my head that I didn't like my husband looking at porn, because it made me feel bad, my husband would stop.

Because he respects me and my feelings. In the cases where porn has broken up the relationship, the person does not respect their spouse. There would be problems eventually. The porn was just easy to use as the scapegoat for the individual that couldn't be bothered enough to actually care about their mate.

Pornography doesn't break up marriages, people do.

So, I can politely tell your friend (and you if you support it) to take your own sexual issue's else where. I'm not buying.

This guy sounds an awful lot like this freak here that's trying to get all the books banned from the library that have any sexual references at all. I have an intense dislike for him.

He started reading My Secret Garden outloud to illustrate how evil the book was. He completely left out the parts that dealt with the psyche of a woman and her sexuality in today's society and dealing with the demons of rape and self loathing. He thought it would be more fun to read the "dirty parts".

Twenty years ago this guy would have been the same guy insisting Huckleberry Finn needed to be banned as well.